ng king of your realm.” That doesn’t mean egoic dominion—it means taking full [responsibility](./responsibility) for your energy, your thoughts, your actions, your path._" "_No more [blaming](./blame) others. No more waiting to be rescued. No more serving false masters—whether internal or external. The true king serves the divine spark within, and nothing else._" 16:T561, "_The greatest enemy of [love](./love) is [attachment](./attachment). Why? Because it tries to disguise itself as love. There is a similarity between closeness and clinging that easily confuses the mind._" "_a [fear](./fear) of loss or craving to control creates the type of clinging that tries to grasp another person with tension_" "_[Attachment](./attachment) is essentially a refusal to come to terms with change, it’s an attempt to keep things the same or under your power._" "_[Love](./love) is meant to be grounded in freedom. [Attachment](./attachment) is an opposing force to freedom; it tries to keep things the same, while freedom understands that change is ultimately good._" "_[Attachment](./attachment) will create images in your mind of what you crave the most and it will direct your energy into creating and maintaining them in the external world._" "_We can end up “falling in [love](./love)” with the idea we have of someone and whenever the reality of that person deviates from the image we have of them in our mind, we fear the dissonance and fight against it._" "_[Attachment](./attachment) will ask our loved ones to stay the same, but this is impossible when the river of existence constantly flows forward._"