13:"$Sreact.suspense" 14:I[5699,["8897","static/chunks/71d5b6fe-2cd557593089f17e.js","9323","static/chunks/25b8c134-985942d353a57552.js","8173","static/chunks/8173-470e2d1d3d3a1f20.js","1447","static/chunks/1447-d5d90436dd97d122.js","8615","static/chunks/8615-e28de43b38ead73e.js","3313","static/chunks/3313-1f4a831136ce2bdc.js","1245","static/chunks/1245-0f722b048f5db172.js","4265","static/chunks/4265-0139efd251ad09bc.js","4983","static/chunks/4983-8e7508a7f9fc51fe.js","9716","static/chunks/9716-45bc67a5294c4689.js","4881","static/chunks/4881-26ad6f3e7563cc41.js","3970","static/chunks/3970-6471244f5177b699.js","7182","static/chunks/app/%5Bslug%5D/page-042e35d6d156557d.js"],"default",1] 15:T54a, "_As long as we have unconscious (repressed, denied, disowned) enjoyment in some 'bad' thing in our lives, we will keep seeking out that very same 'bad' thing._" In the book, Carolyn often references this quote attributed by Carl Jung: "_Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will rule your life and you will call it fate._" – Carl Jung As long as we don't accept our hidden [patterns](./patterns), we are going to repeat them over and over again. History repeats itself. In _Existential Kink_, Carolyn gives many exercises that help with the process of making the unconscious conscious. ### 7 Axioms of Existential Kink #### 1. Having is evidence of wanting #### 2. We have a choice as to whether we experience sensation as pleasure or pain #### 3. It's possible to gett off on every 'stroke', and every happening in life is a 'stroke' #### 4. The degree of being 'turned off' or 'turned on' is a factor of approval #### 5. Desire evolves through fulfillment, not denial and repression #### 6. Shame is the Magic Killer #### 7. The truth is sensational <

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